Sometimes the biggest lessons in life turn out to be the smallest, or simplest insights. Do you find that? It’s not that I am slow to learn, it’s just that sometimes the lessons have trouble getting through the business and busyness of my life. Do you find that?  I learned this week:

If I do not love me I cannot love you.

If I do not take care of me; I cannot take care of you.

If I do not meet my needs I cannot meet yours.

If I do not listen to myself, I will not be able to hear you.

What is your experience of this? I wonder if it is different for men?

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Eliza has been sharing life’s lessons with us. Read her previous contribution.